I heard these words with no action forever until I met Barry. I told him from the start, do not run I love you in the ground to me. It’s actually a turn off. Show me. I rarely hear those words from him. I see them in action daily. I am thankful for his actions of love too. It has helped me to continue to see the good. When I hear people run these words in the ground, I am cautious with them. I pay closer attention to their behaviors. I had one friend who constantly told me she loved me. I never heard from her unless she needed something, or the day my brother died and she came being nosey. It was my own fault for allowing it, but overall, she is such a shitty person. So are many others who ran these words in the ground to me. Show your love. Don’t say it.